{"id":6293,"date":"2025-05-28T23:05:45","date_gmt":"2025-05-28T23:05:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/femininehues.com\/?p=6293"},"modified":"2025-05-29T01:09:09","modified_gmt":"2025-05-29T01:09:09","slug":"my-day-one-a-healing-journey","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/femininehues.com\/es\/my-day-one-a-healing-journey\/","title":{"rendered":"My Day One: A Healing Journey Through Movement, Motherhood &amp; Mini Steps"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><br><strong>\ud83c\udf38 Starting Your Workout &amp; Exercise Journey with Heart &amp; Grace<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Hello gorgeous!! It\u2019s your big sister, Victoria, here to share a little love, some truth, and my personal healing + workout journey from 2023 into 2024. \ud83c\udf3f<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Whew\u2026 it had been <em>forever<\/em> since I wrote anything like this! So.. around the fall of 2023, I was in recovery from a C-section after welcoming my second sweet baby boy into the world. Mommy life has been <em>crazy<\/em>, you guys!!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And if you\u2019re a mommy like me\u2014with little ones who are constantly on the move\u2014you are <strong>not alone<\/strong>. I want to remind you right now:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2728 You are strong.<br>\u2728 You are resilient.<br>\u2728 And not only do your kiddos deserve a happy, healthy, thriving mama\u2026 but <strong>you<\/strong> deserve to <em>feel your best<\/em>, too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Please remember\u2014you are loved, you are appreciated, and it is <em>never too late<\/em> to become your best self, sweetheart. Let\u2019s do this together. \ud83d\udcaa\ud83c\udffd\ud83d\udc97<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>\ud83c\udf3f When You Realize It\u2019s Time<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/femininehues.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/pexels-gustavo-fring-6496100-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-6297\" srcset=\"https:\/\/femininehues.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/pexels-gustavo-fring-6496100-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/femininehues.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/pexels-gustavo-fring-6496100-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/femininehues.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/pexels-gustavo-fring-6496100-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/femininehues.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/pexels-gustavo-fring-6496100-1024x1536.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/femininehues.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/pexels-gustavo-fring-6496100-scaled.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/femininehues.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/pexels-gustavo-fring-6496100-8x12.jpg 8w, https:\/\/femininehues.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/pexels-gustavo-fring-6496100-40x60.jpg 40w, https:\/\/femininehues.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/pexels-gustavo-fring-6496100-600x900.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Time flies when you\u2019re a toddler mama, and the housework? It <em>never<\/em> ends! My little ones are growing so fast, and watching them bond and play together is one of the greatest joys of my life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That said\u2014while I love being a mom with all my heart\u2014pregnancy, recovery, and the everyday hustle took a <em>toll<\/em> on my body. And even though I cherish this body that carried and nourished my babies\u2026 the bigger my boys got, the more I realized:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>I need to be strong.<\/strong><strong><br><\/strong> <strong>I need to be healthy.<\/strong><strong><br><\/strong> <strong>They deserve a healthy mama\u2014and I deserve it, too.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So in August 2024, I remembered something I had tucked away: a little mini stepper I bought way back during postpartum after my first child. It had been sitting in my closet, collecting dust.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Then one Monday, I decided: <em>\u201cI want to feel strong. I want to feel alive in my body again. Let me just try 200 steps today.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And just like that\u2026 something shifted.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>\ud83d\udc9e The Real Beginning<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>I didn\u2019t record my progress daily (even though I kind of wish I had). But if I\u2019m honest, I tend to get discouraged easily, and sometimes I feel\u2026 I don\u2019t know, just <em>off<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But I showed up. And I started.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>TikTok had this cute little trend called \u201csteppisodes\u201d going around\u2014and that\u2019s exactly what I did. I&#8217;d step on my mini stepper while watching <em>Interview with the Vampire<\/em> (which is <em>soooo<\/em> good by the way\u2014ugh, I can\u2019t wait for the next season!).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Each episode is about 35 minutes, so I\u2019d aim for two episodes a day. That first day? <em>Whew.<\/em> My legs were on fire, and I was dripping with sweat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But then I remembered something my elementary school coach used to say:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cBreathe in through your nose, out through your mouth. Your muscles need oxygen\u2014it\u2019s what helps you keep going.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So I breathed. I kept going. And little by little, day by day, I started building strength and endurance with my mighty little stepper. \ud83d\udcab<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>\ud83d\udc97 Falling in Love with the Process<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>As the days went by, I found myself absolutely falling in love with this amazing little machine. Not only was it compact, but it was <em>so<\/em> convenient to use as a mama with two little ones\u2014especially with one of them being on the autism spectrum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>During my postpartum days, I truly felt like going to the gym was impossible. But the mini stepper surprised me\u2026 like <em>really<\/em> surprised me. I didn\u2019t expect such a good workout from something so small. And because it was right there, in the comfort of my home, I started looking forward to it each day\u2014one step at a time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-video\"><video controls src=\"https:\/\/femininehues.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/copy_1EC82834-01CB-4359-BAB6-B0107F207CB0.mp4\"><\/video><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019ve always been a yoga girl at heart\u2014and I still am\u2014but I could never bring myself to <em>want<\/em> to do fast-paced cardio. If I\u2019m honest, I was afraid of it. I felt like I just couldn\u2019t do it. That maybe I wasn\u2019t <em>meant<\/em> to be one of those \u201ccardio girls.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But after two consistent weeks with my stepper, I started to notice something shift. My endurance felt stronger. My body felt lighter. I remember thinking:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cI think I can do more\u2026 what if I add in a little Pilates while I step?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So I did.<br>Then I thought, <em>why not add in some weights too?<\/em><em><br><\/em> And I did that too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And honey\u2026 let me tell you\u2014<strong>that strong feeling??<\/strong> It\u2019s addictive in the <em>best<\/em> way. It\u2019s a whole different kind of confidence when you actually <em>feel<\/em> strong.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I noticed I could lift and play with both of my toddlers without getting winded. I didn\u2019t feel as sore or drained after a long day. I wasn\u2019t constantly out of breath or needing a break. And honestly?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It inspired my husband too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Watching me move with more love and energy, caring for my body and nourishing it\u2014it sparked something in him. We started bonding even more over our shared motivation to get healthier together. And that part? That was <em>so beautiful<\/em>. \ud83c\udf31\ud83d\udcaa\ud83c\udffd\ud83d\udc9e<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>\ud83c\udf1f Leveling Up \u2014 Mind, Body &amp; Soul<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>I started counting the months\u2014every 29th became a personal celebration. A little victory marking another month of progress and consistency. And during that stepping journey, I realized I wasn\u2019t just training my body\u2014I was training my <em>mind<\/em> too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I felt like I had <em>earned<\/em> the strength and endurance I was building. It wasn\u2019t handed to me\u2014it came from showing up, one step at a time. And as my workouts became more serious, so did my nutrition. I knew that if I wanted to keep going, to keep improving, I had to fuel my body like it mattered\u2014because it <em>does<\/em> matter. Nourishment became a form of self-love, and honestly? It made me feel like a superhero.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now let\u2019s get into the juicy part\u2014the transition. The <em>level-up<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As a beginner, I give <em>all<\/em> the credit to my mini stepper. That little machine sparked everything. But paired with my determination? Whew, I started to unlock strength I didn\u2019t even know I had.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So what did I do? I leveled up. \ud83d\ude0c\u2728<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I call it <strong>Level Two<\/strong>\u2014when I began combining Pilates with strength training. And let me tell you, <em>that<\/em> was a game changer. With my new stamina, I realized I <em>could<\/em> keep going\u2014as long as I kept my breathing steady, I could <em>lift<\/em> too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At first, I used my little 5-pound dumbbells\u2014bless them! But I wanted more of a challenge. So my husband and I invested in a 90-pound barbell and dumbbell weight set. And that, mi amor\u2026 was the beginning of my strength training era. \ud83d\udcaa\ud83c\udffd\ud83d\udd25<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>\ud83d\udc9e The New Normal\u2014Rooted in Love<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>As each 29th rolled around (going on <em>nine months<\/em> this coming Thursday!), this new rhythm became part of our family&#8217;s everyday life. What once felt like a huge effort was now\u2026 our <em>norm<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Even my children took notice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Every day, around the same time, my little ones knew\u2014it was \u201cmommy\u2019s stepping time.\u201d My 3-year-old would go and bring me my running shoes and pull out the stepper from its cozy little corner. And my 1-year-old? He\u2019d waddle over with my ankle weights in his tiny hands. \ud83e\udd79\ud83d\udc95<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They\u2019d watch me move, smile, and mimic my exercises\u2014the stepping, the plank poses, the stretches\u2026 it was the <em>cutest<\/em> and most heart-melting thing to witness. But deeper than that\u2026 was the realization:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>They\u2019re watching me.<\/strong><strong><br><\/strong> <em>This<\/em> is their idea of health.<br><em>This<\/em> is their normal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And oh, how that filled me with a wave of emotion. This journey that started as a private healing path\u2026 had become a shared family story of growth, strength, and love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now I have to mention their daddy\u2014he\u2019s an over-the-road truck driver and not always home. But you guys\u2026 I am so proud of him too. Watching me show up for myself inspired <em>him<\/em> to show up for his own health. He started bringing weights with him on the road, and even bought a mini stepper to use in his truck during rest breaks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That kind of dedication? That kind of <em>togetherness<\/em>? It\u2019s powerful. The fortitude we\u2019ve grown as a family has been transformative\u2014and that\u2019s what pushes me to keep going, to keep sharing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Because if our little journey can spark a light in someone else\u2026<br>Then it\u2019s already so, so worth it. \ud83d\udcab<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>\ud83d\udc97 Your First Step Starts Now<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>As I end this message to you, I just want to remind you\u2014<br><strong>It\u2019s never too late to start.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>With courage, and the belief in your own capabilities, <em>you<\/em> can change your life too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For me, choosing to begin was one of the best decisions I\u2019ve ever made for my health. And honestly? It all began with this little mini stepper\u2014just a tiny machine, but it gave me my very first \u201cstep\u201d toward taking control of my well-being. I went from a seed\u2026 to a sprout\u2026 to a blossom. \ud83c\udf31\ud83c\udf38<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Along the way, I educated myself on movement, nutrition, and the power of rest. I learned to fuel my body with whole foods, with vitamins that support me, and most of all\u2014with kindness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So to you, my friend, I say:<br><strong>Embrace your own unique journey.<\/strong><strong><br><\/strong> Let your <em>why<\/em> lead the way.<br>And please\u2014be gentle with yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There\u2019s no rush. Your body will feel different every day, and that\u2019s okay.<br>Listen. Rest when you need it.<br>Because while exercise moves your body\u2014<strong>rest is what makes you stronger.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And remember:<br>\u2728 <em>Everybody has a Day 1.<\/em> \u2728<br>Let this be yours.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\ud83c\udf38 Starting Your Workout &amp; Exercise Journey with Heart &amp; Grace Hello gorgeous!! 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